My first butt plug ever was was a pretty small jewel butt plug.
Ah, my small jewel butt plug. It was my very first, and was a tiny little gem butt plug that made things less daunting. I really didn’t like anal play for most of my life, but in the last year or so I opened up to it. I guess I’d never been with a guy who knew what the fuck they were doing in that regard, and finally found one. Suddenly, I opened up to new possibilities.
That being said, I had never owned a butt plug. This was a whole new ball game for me. I wanted a pretty one, though, because why not? So I found myself a small jewel butt plug. It was pretty little, though, and I quickly moved on to the VeDO Bump vibrating butt plug, which is larger – while not huge – and just generally awesome with its vibrations. Still, my gem butt plug was fun for a little bit.
Do not, I repeat, do NOT get a metal butt plug from somewhere like Wish. You think it’s a nice cheap option and it looks cool and shiny, but it is more than likely not made of body safe materials. Metal butt plugs can be bad news. Yes, there are some metals that are fine – stainless steel, aluminum, or titanium products are body safe. That being said, if you see a butt plug for $10 claiming to be stainless steel, it is a big fat lie. Don’t worry, though, there are still some metal butt plugs out there that are body safe, like this one.
If you’re looking for your first gem butt plug, I recommend the Booty Bling. It is made of premium body-safe silicone, so you know you’re good to go. That being said, not everything about this style of butt plug is great.
Shape and Size
This guy is itty bitty. And that was great… at first. The Booty Bling was my first go at butt plugs ever.
The spherical shape of this gem butt plug helps it slide in easy, but whatever you do, do not forget to lube up first! You should use only water based lube on silicone sex toys, so keep that in mind.
Despite being nice and small, the post is long enough to sit comfortably enough to wear it for more than just for sex. You can wear it walking around no problem. The jewels also come in a few different colours, so you can choose the look you want. But, while using any butt plug during sex, it feels like double penetration. If you’re into that, or want the sensation without having to actually handle two men at once (sounds difficult, albeit intriguing), it’s an awesome sensation. Plus, whether with my small jewel butt plug or my vibrating one, guys seem to love the sensation. Past partners have even requested I wear it during sex, so it must have been good for them too.
The length of this small jewel butt plug is 2.75″, with an insertable length of 2.5″. The girth is 3.6″ at its largest point. Compare this to my second butt plug, the VeDO bump, which has an insertable length 4.25″ of and a girth of 3.75″. If you’re used to anal sex, you may want to skip right ahead to an awesome small-ish vibrating one over a gem butt plug.
Overall Experience With a Small Jewel Butt Plug
While I had an excellent experience with my first little butt plug, there are some things to take note of. For one, this was a great size for go, but I quickly was over it. Seeing as I was having anal sex, I was used to something larger; I was just nervous to buy something big for my first butt plug. It wasn’t long until I bought a vibrating butt plug that was sightly bigger in size, albeit not huge.
There are a few other things to keep in mind before buying a small jewel butt plug. For one, the round base isn’t as great as the t-bar bases on butt plugs, as the small round base has the potential to slip inside you. Furthermore, if you want to use the butt plug while walking around, a jewel base will potentially rub against you. And, god forbid the jewel should fall out, most small jewel butt plugs are made of softer silicone, so if the jewel part falls out, that thing is probably going to slip into your body. Again, not what you want.
In all, while a small jewel butt plug may seem pretty and awesome, it’s not the best option. You probably still want to go small for your first butt plug, but go for a silicone one with a t-bar base.